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i have a problem with commitment, its seems like every great guy i meet i cheat on him or fantasize of other guys and eventually i end up cheating on him or doing something i regret.am i the problem. or could the problem be that im not ready for commitment and im too young to be held down by one guy?
ReplyDeleteMe too girl! lol
ReplyDeleteIt's like, i dont want to go my whole life wondering if i missed out on the right guy..
Dear commitment coward (no offense at all)
ReplyDeleteFirst off, you should do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Cheating is not the answer to your problem if you are afraid of commitment. When you feel yourself about to cheat or thinking about it, you should tell the great guy that youre involved with at the time “ I am sorry I cant be with you because(fill in the blank with an excuse). Because cheating is only going to hurt him at the moment and you in the long run. I don’t think that you are too young for commitment; I have been in a relationship with the same person since high school, so your age may not be the problem. I have fantasized about other men, but that was where it stopped, at some point in time you have to practice self-control because there is always going to be something that appears better than what you already have. Then at that point you have to weigh the pros and cons of your current relationship and the new relationship that you might begin. You might not be ready, or that is what you’re telling yourself. When you meet the guy that is more than great you will probably stop cheating. But, you have to understand that nothing is absolutely perfect, so you have to go into the relationship with a positive attitude and don’t think about your past when you start that relationship with the new extremely great guy. Tell yourself “what happened in the past is just that, the past and I am going to give (fill in blank with guys name) my all without holding anything back.” And if that relationship doesn’t go the way you want it to, then you will be able to tell yourself that “I gave it everything I had and it didn’t work out because of reasons that were beyond my control.” The problem you have with commitment may just be psychological, because we as human beings often feel there has to be something better out there. But people fail to realize what one person thinks is better another might think it’s the closest thing to being perfect for them.
Sincerely.
Pinky
P.S Pinky Promise’s “everything is o.k in the end, if it’s not o.k than it’s not the end”.