“Life is complicated, love is simple,” says Trevor Pierce, lead-actor on ABC’s new hit show, Cupid.
Men should still court women! Men should not be afraid to voice how they feel about a woman because he feels like less of a man because he is showing vulnerability. Where did chivalry go?
I can preach all day about how men should treat us like we are in a fairytale, but truth be told, WE ARE letting them get away with treating us in the opposite way!
In life, women make decisions about who they want to date and why. However, lately women have been settling for less than what they deserve. We are starting to let men get away with giving and treating us like the “norm”.
WE don’t mind if men don’t open the doors for us anymore!
WE don’t mind if men just want to “chill” with us instead of asking us on a REAL date!
WE are letting men “talk” to us for longer than three months without making a commitment to us!
WE are ALLOWING men to get away with these things!
THIS IS WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS!
Just like Steve Harvey said, we have to start setting standards and requirements for men or they will not take us seriously! If he cannot handle our standards than he is not the one for us!
Face it, LADIES! (And I use the term LADIES, loosely!) We deserve so much better! However, if we don’t show that we deserve better and carry ourselves like we deserve better than we won’t receive better! Have class! Make yourself number one! And don’t fall for the bs! Let’s began to have a no bs theory when it comes to men and ourselves!
<3 Stef!
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Me as a male, kind of agree and disagree. I agree with the statements that women settle for less than what they should have, because of convenience and society.. I disagree on the fact that women need to up their standards from what they have because if I as a male just so happen to find a PRETTY Female who is doing well for herself.. I don't want to have to go through a testing exam to be able to take her out on a date. It seems that way though. Many of the females on the "higher pedistol of themselves," seem to pay no attention to the men who are doing well for themselves because they have been caught in the "gangster, get money" era. I do slightly feel that this era is changing though...
ReplyDeleteOn another note: It is a TRUE gentleman who opens up a door for a female.. Friend or Dating or Talking.. etc.. She is a FEMALE.
3 Months is the time limit for commitment? I didn't know there was a time limit on getting to know someone.. I would rather "talk" for 3 months before I make a commitment and then find out that she is a slut, hoe, etc...
Sincerely,
Exum Lee III
I dont think we should be a time on "talking" whenever your ready to take it to that next leve may vary from person to person.. But us ladies do settle for less..
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